Sunday, November 24, 2013

It's the Little Things (What I've Learned 3)

I've always known that the best things come in small packages (hello, jewelry!). But this year has really shown me that it's the little things and moments that make life special and worthwhile.

It may be the Christmas spirit starting to prematurely permeate the campus, but little moments with my friends have been the real key to my happiness this semester. In the midst of crazy life decisions and tests, time with my friends has become so important to me.

My friend brought me and my roommates cookies after a tough week for all of us. We sat, talked, and just vented in an environment of support and love. We then went to a formal, just us girls, and danced the night away. We didn't worry about impending finals (yikes), and just enjoyed ourselves.

I've been realizing lately that my joy and my happiness is directly correlated to the things that I have or what is going on in my life; it's the experiences with loved ones that are truly important.

Last night was a true example of this: my friends and I went downtown to watch the downtown Christmas tree lighting. It was completely free (and freezing), but all that mattered was that we were together. We made such great memories just living that moment together.

In the hubbub of the season, it's hard to keep my eyes on what really matters. But it's moments like eating cookies and dancing with friends that put in all in perspective. The best things in life really do come for free!

2 comments:

  1. Justine, I could not agree more with this entire post. It seems like this semester has really taken a toll and me and my friends, and our breaks of having fun are the only thing keeping us sane right now. I think that's one of the great things about humor and why it is so important to all of us. Humor can act as an escape or relief from the hard or difficult things going on in your life at the moment. I feel like humor is found almost exclusively in the "little things" we do in life. I'm glad you are getting into the Christmas spirit, and I hope you are remaining sane through finals. Best of luck to you!

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  2. Justin,

    I like your joke about jewelry. I'm glad that you enjoyed yourself during this magical time. It's true that finals are important, but it's more important to know what you have, what you want, and what make you happy. If eating cookies and dancing with your friends can bring joy to your soul, you should embrace it, and then let the improved and empowered Justin fight the finals. May the curve be on your favor! :)

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